I have got the perfect book for you and your spouse!!!!!!!!!!! It's called 101 Nights of Great Sex. WAIT!!!! Before you roll your eyes and mutter about porn and inappropriatness and close this blog, hear me out.
Stonewall and I have been married for a little under a year and we are still in the honeymoon phase of our marriage. We aren't having problems in that area yet (and hopefully never), but that doesn't mean we don't keep things going without a little help. We've been known to buy a sex book or watch porn together. Both of which give us some excellent ideas. This book though has been the best purchase so far.
I know, you may be thinking, "But this kind of stuff is for the couples who have lost the spark and want to get it flaming again."
WRONG!!!
Let me tell you, Stonewall and I have never lost our spark. In fact, we've found that its this type of thing that helps keep the spark going. Nobody has all the answers. You can get as creative as you think is possible and the next day read about something new. Its just like anything else in this world, you can always learn more. Sex is no different.
So back to the book. The book contains 101 way to have great sex. However, not all of the 101 ways are sex. The book included ways to flirt with and woo your partner, not just please them in the sack. The other fun aspect of the book is that all of the ideas are sealed shut. Once a week each person rips out an idea and then spends the week setting up the encounter. It is always a surprise as to what your partner will do next to curl your toes. Plus, since your partner knows something should be coming, you won't want to let them down by not seeing your idea through.
The great thing about the book is that anything goes. Even though some of the ideas cost money or include travel, that doesn't mean you can't use your imagination to make the ideas fit your budget and time schedule. Even if your normal routine includes an idea in the book, use your imagination to change it up a little. No matter how amazing or unsatisfactory your sex life currently is, this book will only up the experience.
I'm a firm believer in laughing...anytime, anyplace, including during sex. Stonewall and I make each other laugh all the time during sex. Even while your laughing you can be romantic. Since this book is about using your imagination and stretching beyond your normal boundries, you never know whether the next move you or your partner makes will be "Legends of the Fall" romantic or "Fever Pitch" romantic
Geez, are you still reading this?! Go buy the book and start romancing!!!!!
Geez, are you still reading this?! Go buy the book and start romancing!!!!!
6 comments:
I'll have to check it out on amazon. Thanks for the heads up about it. Its getting harder now that A. we rarely are in the same zipcode and B. we rarely have a child free moment or the energy in the childfree moments! Maybe the book has a solution for that!
By the way flyboy and I discussed the Stop loss issue for almost an entire way thru a state. It made for some very good converstation and I was surprised by his take on it. Thanks for the food for though!
You are officially awesome.
Trying~
Definitely give the book a gander. Even if you guys can't use the book every week, you can still use it to impress each other once or twice a month. Some of the reviews on Amazon do say that the ideas in the book make it pretty easy to work around kid time.
lindsay aka corn~
Thank you!!! And thanks for reading!
Trying~
BTW, I'm glad to provide some good conversation. I hope you write about it also. I'm always curios to know how other soldiers and their families feel about these types of issues.
Hmm, I think you just gave me a great idea for Valentine's day! And amen about the kids thing - the honeymoon phase ended after kid #1, that's for sure! But, it still happens, it just takes a whole lot more planning now. so I like this idea.
aw shucks - 7 more months....
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