It is things like this that make me love my son even more. Yes, apparently that is possible.
I know what you're probably thinking, "But it's just a sippy cup."
I suppose it is just a sippy cup. However, when I look at that sippy cup sitting in an odd spot the first thing that pops into my mind is, "I have a son. I have a healthy, beautiful baby boy that fills up my whole life and sits sippy cups the bottom of the stairs because something more interesting caught his attention."
I can picture him in my mind, toddling through the dining room, holding his sippy cup between both hand, just looking for something to get into. When he finally see that something, he squats down and carefully sits his sippy cup on the floor, leaving it for later. I think of him examining a piece of paper on the floor, picking it up and bringing it to me, so he can share. I think of him pushing his lawn mower or riding his McQueen car and making "motor" noises. I think of the joy on his face when he can reach a remote or cell phone or camera and he thinks he's won the jackpot.
It is this sippy cup and these toys that remind me that this house is Stonewall's and mine and it is filled with our family that we created together. It is not always neat and clean. In fact, it is more often cluttered with more toys than one child needs, shoes that were tossed off after a long day, magazines and books, Wii remotes, diaper bags spilling over and yes, sippy cups.
And the thing is, I'm happiest when I walk into a room and I'm reminded that a family, my family, lives here. I go to bed at night and I'm happier because I spent more time sitting on the floor and playing with Lil Mootz than I did trailing behind him and picking up after him or because Stonewall and I cuddled up together on the couch at night rather than folding one more load of laundry.
That is why a simple green and purple sippy cup at the bottom of my stairs brings a smile to face. It is not just a sippy cup. It is a reminder of how lucky I am to have such a sweet little boy, a husband that loves me, and a house that is a home.


17 comments:
I feel that way too when i see baby stuff! It may be cluttered and messy and look like a day care, but it is a reminder of how blessed we are.
My mom still has the sippy cups we used while growing up!
You are as lucky as I still am. I get to enjoy you, as a wonderful mother and wife. ~Mom
A child can never have too many toys. Toys and clutter are good things. Toys are a child's learning tools, and the more he has, the more he discovers. Clutter is evidence that the toys are being put to good use! So, don't hold back.... BUY TOYS!
I should be a spokesperson for ToysRUs, huh? *lol* I love toys!
I love this post! It brought such a smile to my face, and I can't wait until I can have that feeling! :)
Yep, that's one super~fantastical sippy cup!!!
awwww!! that's so sweet!! and i totally know how you feel...walking into the house seeing toys and evidence of the kids just makes it feel more like a home....they'll be time to pick up when they're older... now is the time to enjoy the small things!
Awww... What a sweet post!
I love this :) It really amazes me how little ones act - the way they adventure around and their view of the world is just way too awesome!
Aw, I'm glad you have such a wonderful family that brings you so much happiness.
This post is so heartful. I love that something so mundane and ordinary, like a sippy cup, can have so much meaning.
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-Francesca
so glad you are appreciating every moment :D
I actually know what you are talking about! I can remember seeing odd things like that when mine were small and just getting giddy.
Oh sweetness:( Now I'm emotional.
Not only do you have a happy, healthy son... but he's ABSOLUTELY ADORABLE!
That is so sweet. I feel the same way; even when I almost trip and eat it over baby toys. lol
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